Relationship Skills

Understands and Participates in Joking
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VOISS Connection

During VOISS lessons, Marcus learned to identify situations in which people were joking. He learned to say, “That’s a good one” in response to jokes. Ms. Jones observed that Marcus was consistently responding to jokes, but only ever responded with, “That’s a good one.”

Ms. Jones created a lesson to help Marcus practice the skill of understanding and participating in joking (Relationship Skill 16).

VOISS Advisor Lesson Plan Outline

Relationship Skill 16: Understands and Participates in Joking

Define the social skill to be demonstrated in observable and measurable terms. This should be the skill you want the student to use when the situation / opportunity naturally occurs.

Across five different conversations, when a peer directs a joke toward Marcus, Marcus will respond with five different, appropriate comments across three consecutive instances.

Generalization Emphasis

Setting Generalization

Instructional Setting

Instructional Method

Support Strategy

Reinforcement

Generalizing the Skills

Ms. Jones focused on response generalization. She wanted Marcus to learn different ways to respond to jokes.

Ms. Jones operationally defined one outcome that indicated her generalization lessons were effective:

 

  • Across five different conversations, when a peer directs a joke toward Marcus, Marcus will respond with five different, appropriate comments across three consecutive instances.

Choosing an Instructional Setting and Method

Ms. Jones decided that the small group time provided during the lunch bunch would be an ideal instructional setting. There were several peers Marcus wanted to socialize with in this group. In particular, Ms. Jones knew there were a couple boys in this group who often joked and teased each other playfully. Ms. Jones decided to use role play to act out different scenarios with different ways of responding to jokes. Role play would allow the group to rehearse a variety of joking scenarios and promote response generalization.

 

Choosing a Generalization Tactic and Support Strategy

Ms. Jones realized that although Marcus wanted to socialize and joke with peers, doing so required a lot of effort on Marcus’s part. Peers were also unlikely to want to talk about many of Marcus’s preferred topics. Ms. Jones decided to train Mr. Park, Marcus’s paraprofessional, to use Marcus’s token system to help reinforce Marcus for responding to jokes appropriately. She also decided the best way for Marcus to learn to respond to different jokes was to practice joking with multiple examples. 

Lesson Implementation

Ms. Jones’ Lesson on “Understanding and Participating in Joking”

Developing the Role Play

Ms. Jones developed several role play scripts with different roles for each student. Ms. Jones observed typically-developing peers conversing and joking throughout their day. She also watched popular comedic television shows. With this information, she developed 10 scripts involving a small group of peers joking about a specific topic or teasing each other in friendly ways. Students would rotate roles and take turns responding to joking / teasing and initiating jokes. The focus was teaching Marcus to contribute to jokes (rather than just say, “That’s a good one,” or a similar statement).

Three of Marcus’s peers participated in each role play scenario, and each person played each role in each scenario at least one time. After role play, Ms. Jones asked the students to think of other things they joked about and discuss how someone could respond. Ms. Jones also proposed several hypothetical situations in which someone made a comment / joke. She asked students to share different ways they would respond. Marcus received token reinforcement for his participation in the lesson.

Following the lesson, Ms. Jones took time to briefly chat with some other students in Marcus’s classes. She explained that Marcus was learning to joke with others and asked if any of them would be willing to help out. She asked willing peers to make jokes with Marcus when they were talking to him. Ms. Jones shared that Marcus might not always understand they were joking, and that he might not know how to respond. She also told them that just hearing different types of jokes and participating in different types of interactions helped Marcus learn.

 

Recruiting Support from the Paraprofessional

Ms. Jones then trained Mr. Park to prompt and reinforce Marcus. She explained to Mr. Park that Marcus was learning to respond to jokes and make jokes with others. She told Mr. Park that although Marcus knew when peers were joking, he was working on responding to jokes in different ways. Ms. Jones also communicated to Mr. Park that several peers had been trained to engage and joke with Marcus. Mr. Park would prompt Marcus to join these groups of peers, but step back so as not to interfere with the interaction. If Mr. Park heard Marcus respond to a joke in a novel way, he would praise Marcus and provide token reinforcement after the interaction.

 

National and State Standards Benchmarks and Indicators

RS.16 Understands and Participates in Joking
Collaborative for Academic, Social and Emotional Learning (CASEL) Standards
  • Relationship Skills
Kansas Social Emotional Character Development (KSECD) Standards

Character Development

  • Core Principles
    • C. Create a Caring Community 3. Take steps to prevent peer cruelty or violence and deal with it effectively when it occurs digitally, verbally, physically and/or relationally.
      • 6-8 (11-13) b. Model positive peer interactions that are void of bullying behaviors.